💖 When we begin to feel a strong attachment to someone, we often strive to see them as ideal. We want our partner to be the perfect conversationalist, lover, friend, psychologist, and also the most attractive person in the world. But in fact, the ideal does not exist. And it's great! After all, it is our differences, our shortcomings and weaknesses that make us unique and beautiful. We can learn from each other, support and help each other in difficult moments, but at the same time do not impose their will and do not demand the impossible. After all, our partner doesn't have to be perfect for us to love them unconditionally. 💕