Distance is no barrier to love. The contractions of the heart of one soulmate always resonate in the heart rhythm of the other. Love has two major obstacles - circumstances and fears. We often lack the courage to step over the stones of the past and the doubts of the present. But it's usually one of the two that fails. That's the difficulty: one half has given up something that the other half cannot give up. An excruciatingly one-sided relationship.